So, you’ve matched with someone on Facebook Dating. You’ve swapped a few messages, maybe flirted a little, and now you’re thinking—it’s time to take this beyond texting. Great idea. Messaging is cool, but hearing someone’s voice? That’s a game changer.
Enter Facebook Dating audio calls.
Yep, you can actually call someone from right inside the Facebook Dating feature. No need to swap numbers, no awkward Messenger adds, and no downloading another app. It’s all built in. But if you’re wondering how to do it—or if it’s even safe—this guide breaks down everything you need to know.
Why Use Audio Calls on Facebook Dating?
Before we dive into the how-to, let’s talk about why voice calls are worth using in the first place.
Sure, texting is convenient. But it’s also easy to misread tone, miss sarcasm, or just feel disconnected. Voice, on the other hand, brings in the human element. It helps you figure out:
- Is there real chemistry?
- Do they sound confident, kind, or creepy?
- Can you actually hold a conversation together?
Plus, voice chats are less pressure than video calls and still let you feel more connected. It’s perfect for that “getting to know you” phase.
Is Facebook Dating Safe for Audio Calls?
Let’s get this out of the way—yes, it’s safe, as long as you use it smartly.
Facebook Dating calls don’t reveal your phone number or full profile. All audio conversations happen inside the app, and you have control over who you call or receive calls from.
Here’s what you need to know about safety:
- You can only call someone after you’ve matched with them.
- The call feature only activates once both users agree to chat.
- If someone’s being weird, you can block/report them instantly.
- Facebook doesn’t record the calls, and your number stays private.
In short, you’re in control—and your personal info stays protected.
Step-by-Step: How to Make an Audio Call on Facebook Dating
Alright, ready to call your crush? Let’s walk through the process.
Step 1: Open the Facebook App
Facebook Dating only works inside the Facebook mobile app—not on the website. So, grab your phone and make sure your app is updated to the latest version.
To check:
- Go to the App Store (iOS) or Google Play (Android)
- Search “Facebook”
- Tap “Update” if there’s one available
Step 2: Go to Facebook Dating
Once you’re in the app:
- Tap the three-line menu icon (bottom-right on iPhone, top-right on Android)
- Scroll down and tap Dating
- This brings you to your Dating dashboard where you can see matches and messages
Step 3: Open a Conversation With a Match
You can only make audio calls with someone you’ve already matched with. That means you’ve both liked each other’s profiles.
Tap on the conversation you want to open. You’ll see your past messages and maybe some flirty emojis, if things are going well.
Step 4: Tap the Phone Icon
At the top-right corner of the chat screen, you’ll see a small phone icon. That’s your audio call button.
- Tap it once
- The app will send a call request to your match
- They’ll get a notification that you’re calling
They can either accept or decline. If they accept, you’re connected. If not, no worries—maybe try again later or keep the convo in text.
What to Do If You Don’t See the Call Option
Not seeing the phone icon? That can happen for a few reasons:
1. You’re Not Matched Yet
You can only call someone you’ve matched with. If you’re just messaging or haven’t liked each other back yet, the option won’t show.
2. Your App Is Outdated
Sometimes an old version of the app won’t show new features like calls. Update your app to the latest version and restart it.
3. Your Match Disabled Calls
Some users turn off the option to receive calls. If they’ve disabled it in their Dating settings, you won’t be able to call them.
Pro Tips for a Great First Audio Call
Okay, so you’ve got the feature working. Now what? Here’s how to make the most of that first voice chat.
Tip 1: Ask Before You Call
Even though the button is there, don’t just hit it out of nowhere. Send a message first:
“Hey, mind if I call you for a few minutes? Would be fun to hear your voice!”
This shows respect for their time and sets the tone right.
Tip 2: Pick a Quiet Spot
This isn’t a job interview, but you also don’t want your match struggling to hear you over car horns or background TV noise. Find a quiet space where you can actually talk.
Tip 3: Be Yourself
No need to fake a radio voice or act like someone you’re not. Talk how you normally talk. Laugh. Be honest. That’s what dating is about.
Tip 4: Keep It Short and Sweet
Your first call doesn’t need to be an hour-long deep dive into your childhood trauma. Ten to fifteen minutes is perfect for a vibe check.
Example openers:
- “So what made you join Facebook Dating?”
- “What’s one random fun fact about you I wouldn’t guess?”
- “Seen anything good on Netflix lately?”
Keep it light, curious, and friendly.
How to Handle Awkward Calls
Not every call will be amazing. Sometimes people freeze up. Sometimes there’s zero chemistry. It’s all part of dating.
Here’s how to handle those moments:
- If it’s quiet: Ask a simple question or shift the topic. “What’s your go-to weekend plan?”
- If they talk too much: Politely jump in. “Hey, before I forget—quick question!”
- If you’re not into it: End respectfully. “It was great chatting. I’ve gotta head out, but thanks for the call!”
And remember, if anyone makes you feel uncomfortable, block or report them immediately.
Turning Off Incoming Calls (If You Don’t Want Them)
Let’s say you’re more of a texter—or you just don’t feel like chatting with every match on the phone. That’s okay too.
Here’s how to turn off audio calls on Facebook Dating:
- Go to your Dating settings
- Scroll to “General Preferences”
- Toggle off “Allow Audio Calls”
Boom. Done. Now no one can call you unless you turn that setting back on.
Can You Leave Voice Messages Instead?
Nope. As of now, Facebook Dating doesn’t support voice messages. It’s either:
- Regular text messages in chat
- Live voice calls via the phone icon
- Or video calls (for those who want face time)
But who knows? Maybe voice notes will be added in the future.
Facebook Dating Audio Call vs Messenger Call: What’s the Difference?
People often get confused between these two, but here’s the key difference:
- Facebook Dating Audio Call: Happens inside the dating section. You don’t have to be friends. It’s private, secure, and profile-based.
- Messenger Audio Call: Happens between Facebook friends or Instagram contacts. This is outside the dating experience.
You don’t need to become Facebook friends to use Dating calls, which keeps your privacy intact.
Is the Call Feature Available Everywhere?
Almost. But there are some limits.
- You must be in a country where Facebook Dating is available (over 50 supported)
- You must be using the mobile app, not desktop
- Both users must have allowed calls in their settings
Conclusion: Call Smart, Call Real
Making an audio call on Facebook Dating isn’t rocket science—but it is a big step. It’s the move from chatting behind screens to something a little more real, a little more human.
If you’re ready to hear their voice, laugh together, and maybe even make a deeper connection, go for it. Just be chill. Be curious. Be respectful.
A simple voice call might just turn that casual match into something meaningful.
So next time you’re deep into a good chat on Facebook Dating, and you’re thinking “I wish I could hear their voice,” don’t overthink it. Hit that call button—and see where the conversation goes.
Want help crafting your first message before calling? Or ideas for fun things to talk about during a voice chat? Just ask—I’ve got you covered.